Stalking

In most states, stalking is generally defined as a course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person fear. This definition suggests that stalking is a pattern of behaviors rather than a single incident. Every stalking situation is different, there are many behaviors that stalkers can use to intimidate their targets and cause them to suffer fear and distress, including but not limited to harassment. In addition to federal stalking statutes, West Virginia has laws to address stalking.

Stalking includes:

• Surveillance or watching the victim (sitting in a car in front of the victim's house, going through the victim's trash, contacting the victim's family and friends, etc.);
• Pursuing/following the victim;
• Unexpected appearances where the victim works, lives, goes to school, or visits;
• Approaching or confronting the victim, perhaps even in violation of a protective order;
• Telephone harassment, which might include playing disturbing music, hang-ups, or threats;
• Sending/giving unwanted gifts, letters, or e-mails to the victim;
• Monitoring of telephone calls or computer use;
• Use or misuse of technology to stalk and harass (see below);
• Spreading rumors or otherwise defaming the victim's character;
• Vandalism or other destruction of property;
• Threat to the victim and/or her/his family, friends and pets;

Stalking is unpredictable and dangerous. No two stalking situations are alike. No guarantees exist that what works for one person will work for another, yet you can take steps to increase your safety.

• If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
• Contact HOPE's helpline, 304-367-1100, an advocate can help you create a safety plan, provide information about related laws, weigh options such as seeking a protection order, and refer you to other services.